About me
I am a third year Ph.D. student at the University of Washington, advised by Yulia Tsvetkov. I am also a visiting researcher at Meta FAIR, working with Asli Celikyilmaz and Luke Zettlemoyer.
My research is in NLP and cognitive modeling, with a focus on personalization and proactive learning (specifically, how AI should ask questions). I'm interested in how humans and models reason, communicate uncertainty, and make decisions, with applications in healthcare AI and education. My broader goal is building more capable systems that are cognitively and socially aligned for safer, more equitable care.
Research interests: Personalization, Proactive Learning, AI for Health, Safety & Reliability, and more!
Before grad school, I received my B.S. and M.S.E. at Johns Hopkins with majors in Cognitive Science (linguistics focus), Computer Science, and Applied Mathematics (statistics focus). I worked as a research assistant at JHU CLSP advised by Philipp Koehn and Kenton Murray.
Please contact me at stelli [at] cs.washington.edu if you are interested in my work!
Click here to view my CV (updated July 25)
I'm thinking about...
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Proactive Reasoning
How to identify and proactively seek information using LLMs to improve model safety & reliability with statistical guarantee. How to make LLMs ask good questions? How do we model "intuition" in expert domains like medicine?
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Socially-Intelligent Personalization
Modeling how different social groups express health concerns and interpret medical advice. Aiming to personalize AI systems for more equitable, culturally-aware health communication.
News
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2026-06
Invited talk at MSR AI Frontiers on "EvoLM: Self-Evolving Language Models." [Slides].
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2026-05
Check out our new paper "EvoLM: Self-Evolving Language Models through Co-Evolved Discriminative Rubrics" that surfaces latent evaluative knowledge from the model through rubrics to self-improve.
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2026-04
Check out our new paper "HorizonBench: Long-Horizon Personalization with Evolving Preferences" that builds an infinite data generator for long-horizon (2-6 months) user-AI interactions and preference following benchmark.
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2026-03
Guest lecture at UBC NLP: "Proactive Question Asking for Reliable and Personalized LLMs." [Slides].
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2026-02
Check out our new paper "Cold-Start Personalization via Training-Free Priors from Structured World Models" that learns priors from population preferences for interactive personalization.
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2025-11
Check out our new paper "Cognitive Foundations for Reasoning and Their Manifestation in LLMs" that extracts and analyze patterns in LLM and human reasoning.
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2025-11
Guest lecture at UT Austin Computational Discourse and NLG class on PrefPalette [Slides].
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2025-08
"PrefPalette: Personalized Preference Modeling with Latent Attributes" won a Spotlight at COLM 2025🏆!
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2025-06
Invited talk at Cohere Labs on Spurious Rewards [YouTube] [Slides].